Proverb warning that casual companions vanish during danger, while true family remains.
he who eats with you won't die with you, only your kin will / fair-weather friends fail in crisis
marafiki wa maslahi
"Kumbuka wakati wa shida kwamba mla nawe hafi nawe ila mzaliwa nawe."
Translation: Remember in hard times that he who eats with you won't die with you, only your kin will.